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Just read this on Facebook - thought it applied here
Posted: Feb 28, 2013
Karma
When people insult you, don’t take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen to their words. They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess.
"The Law of Mirrors" states that one can only see what’s in them, regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.
Release the need to defend or try to explain to them that you’re not being whatever-nasty-insult-they’ve-thrown-at-you, but evaluate instead all of these insults, and realize that this is who they are.
Then, decide if a person with those qualities is one who you’d like in your life or not.
~Doe Zantamata
I love it... I am going to apply this to that mean - poster below!
[ In Reply To ..]I dont need all of her nasty comments, and instead I realize she is miserable and mean!
THANK YOU...
You need to be more specific. - anon
[ In Reply To ..]Just from reading the thread below, it appears that each side thinks the other is "mean."
I guess the new definition of mean is a person who disagrees with you.
The OP of that particular thread referred to people as trolls in her original post. That leaves me to assume you are referring to that person as being the "mean" poster.
Is it just me or does the description of another person as "mean" bring back memories of 6th grade
You must be absolutely miserable to live with - nm
[ In Reply To ..]nm
Okay, sure. - anon
[ In Reply To ..]And that would be because reasonable and logical people are hard to live with?
The commentary on this board has devolved to a rather childish level.
Very, very bizarre comment.
Yeah, like out of the blue....seems she ... - none
[ In Reply To ..]needs to hit below the belt to be heard. By the way, to the OP, you don't have to get down and dirty to make your point. Remeber the old saying, "you catch more flies with honey". Sad
That little tidbit applies to 90% of the posters on this board. A little more food for thought. - anon
[ In Reply To ..]People seem completely oblivious to their own nasty posts. It is always the "other" guy.
Seems a bit self-righteous ... - notaguru
[ In Reply To ..]First off, this has nothing to do with karma though perhaps a little with dharma. It also presupposes that one party is right and the other is wrong. It also derives from someone thinking they possess some truth about other people when in fact they know nothing of the sort. Finally, it strikes me as self-righteous and arrogant. On the bright side, as someone else posted, this probably applies to 90% of the posters on this board.
Time to implement.... - karma
[ In Reply To ..]Don’t take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen to their words. They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess.
just because somebody phrases something elegantly - does not mean it is correct
[ In Reply To ..]this is just one person's attempt to explain why people insult other people, or attempt to help the insultee feel better about it. It doesn't mean it's the truth. The truth is, some people are just mean. They say whatever they think or feel and don't worry about hurting other people's feelings. I've always wondered what that must be like.
Your post hit home for me.... We appear... - none
[ In Reply To ..]to think alike. The one that absolutely baffles me is, "...people insult other people, or attempt to help the insultee feel better about it! That alone makes me feel badly for the OP. And yes, yes, yes, "The truth is, some people are just mean" amen!
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