we are now not doing adult gift exchanges anymore. Up until this year we picked names to buy for, but this year no adult gift exchange. The main reason is that some members have so much more than others, and some are trying to decrease the amount of stuff they have. I've always been against adult family gift exchanges because it's so hard to buy anything that is actually useful. I know other people who think it's hilarious to buy dud gifts every year. Like they buy a Chia Pet for one family member every year. That's one way to fill our landfills faster.