Posted By: ashley on 2007-01-31
In Reply to: Okay, girls, I need some insight here on a personal level. (sm) - Wondering

You do not want to be his second choice.  Either he is free from this other woman and available to date you in a proper manner or he is not.  Him saying *things are not working out* is SO typical for someone who wants to play the field and still have the security of someone else.  He has been with her 7 years, is not happy, and has not moved on???  You deserve so much better and do not need someone like him.  Let sleeping dogs lie!!!

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