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This young man is going to be family. He should be willing to help. Actually, he should be willing to help even if he wasn't. What is wrong with people nowadays, anyway? What ever happened to helping people just because that's what we should do? This is one selfish society we live in, and I for on think it stinks. It is part of the continuum of life, to help others and receive help when we need it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it and expecting people to pitch in. And your daughter should let him know he is WRONG. why would she want to be with a man who wouldn't help someone who needed it, no matter who they are? If he truly has important plans for the day in question, perhaps he could help on another day. All these selfish people who aren't willing to pitch in...I'll bet they will be the first to p___ and moan when they need something and no one does it for them. And i would worry about my daughter, too, but not just because of his actions but also because she doesn't see his actions as a problem. Hope she doesn't expect much from him because it doesn't look like he will be one to come through. |
no, you are not over-reacting - cj
