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Posted By: he's still your son at 18...sm on 2008-08-27
In Reply to: Your son has ADHD, probably combined type along with opposition defiant disorder in a nutshell...sm - One In The Same

I think that is a weird attitude to have toward your child.  Unfortunately, he is going to be out there is society doing these behaviors that make him so intolerable at home.  It is your responsibility as his parent to ensure that he is fit for society so that he can be accepted and successful.  Kicking him out on the road when he's 18 is not the answer.  I have a 19-year-old and there were days that I was counting down until he went away to college, but no matter what, he's still my son.  He is actually starting to act like a human this year, so there is hope.  Just make sure you keep your heart open to him and not just wish he was gone.  He can feel that from you and will resent you for it.  You only get to do this once, so do your best, not just enough to get him by until he's 18.  I don't want to sound judgmental, but your post does sound a bit harsh.  Beleive me, I have also had my moments that I was more than harsh with my son, but make sure you give a lot of love too.


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