Posted By: MeMT on 2008-08-25
In Reply to: Make him repay every mean thing he does to his brother with 3 nice things sm - MeMT

If you decide it is too harsh and slack off he will learn that you are not going to stick to your word and that he can get away with things. I wouldn't make it anything that takes 4 hours, like sitting a chair. But make it something that will bug him enough that he will remember it next time he raises his hand to hit.

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