Posted By: (OP) on 2008-08-24
In Reply to: thanks, good idea too. - sm -

Wow thanks for all the good tips. As this got off the subject and onto other things, I just wanted to say I have heard Al-Anon is excellent for people dealing with alcoholism in a spouse or other loved one. It might be a great place for support for you and your kids. Just a thought.

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