Posted By: M on 2008-07-21
In Reply to: We have decided to seek professional help. - need advice desperately

Please talk with your husband and tell him that before he makes any more threats about military school or what the next step will be, that it is a decision that the 2 of you make TOGETHER.  I have a DD with several psychological issues and what I find is that if DH and I disagree on anything, it's a weakness that she swoops in on.  She is a product of your marriage, and your marriage should NOT be defined by her and if you two are not in agreement, that's exactly what will happen.  I'll be thinking of you!

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