Posted By: New York MT on 2008-07-08

Our 18 year old son's best friend has moved into a room in our house after his parents moved away.  He's also 18.  We have a 16 year old daughter (no problem - brother and sister like) whose best friend has a huge crush on the friend.  She's been kind of throwing herself at him for a few weeks, texting him, etc.  Now my DH says he saw condoms in his room.  We told my DD today that her friend can't spend the night while our son's friend is living here - too much could happen.  We already found them twice alone in the living room, clothed but under a blanket.  DD is livid.  What do you think?

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