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Every summer, I make a chore chart for each of my 3 boys, ages 5, 7 and 10. Brushing teeth is apparently a big chore that requires a reminder. So on my chore chart it goes, once in the morning and once at night (I figure 2 times a day is pretty good). Other chores I include are making their beds, picking up toys, dirty clothes in the hamper. They are also each required to help wash their clothes once a week and put away their clean clothes. In addition, they're each given 1 special chore for the week, i.e. dishes, watering flowers, vacuuming, etc.
Each time they complete a chore, they get a sticker for that day. At the end of the week, we add up all their stickers. If they have a certain number collectively -- they get to pick a group activity (local amusement park, chuckie cheese or bike ride with the parents, etc.). If they don't reach their goal group number, they get individual rewards.
I've done for the past 2 summers and it has worked great! Kids need structure, even in the summer, and this gives them something to look forward to at the end of the week. I've explained to them that we parents have to work all summer and a little help on their part would be nice. Rewards don't have to cost anything, either. Just pick something you know your child would like. Having the chart helps to remind them and kids love the feeling of "getting it right"
Good luck and remember: when all else fails, bribe 'em! |
here's what I do -- - mom of 3 boys
