Report Message CHAT now! Back Home
 

image

Is my anger justified? Opinions welcomed
[ Post a Reply ] [ View Follow Ups ] [ Gab Board ]

Posted By: moonshine on 2008-06-04

Here's the story:  My ex-sorta-sister-in-law shares a child with my brother.  They both have DUIs and neither one of them can drive.  They only call me when they need help getting their child (who is the same age as mine and attends the same school) picked up after school and delivered to either one of them. 


I own a home in the city, a pretty bad neighborhood, and I happened upon this magnificent house very near her house, in the correct school district.  This house is on a dead-end dirt road surrounded only by trees and nature.  Truly the perfect house for me. 


So, here's what happened.  She needed me to pick her up and then go pick up her child after school.  On the way of returning them home, I said to her, "Oh, Sue, let me show you my dream home."  I drive her past it, saying how I so want this house and I'm going to make it happen.  She says, "Wow, that would be perfect for me and my family" (she has three other kids, having had this child with my brother while having an affair outside her marriage). 


Well, sure enough, at the open house on Sunday, there she was with her four kids and her her toothless husband -- making plans for who gets which room.  I told her I was less than pleased that she was trying to snatch my dream, when her husband stated, "Whoever gets to the bank first gets it." 


My feeling is that she was out of line.  There are thousands of houses for sale in this town and I had displayed extreme interest in this one.  Sure, it's no one's house until the financing is in order, but I feel like she stepped on my toes.  Now, when she calls me tonight asking to deliver her child again, I really feel like I'm out fo favors for this woman.  She obviously has no regard for me.  Am I right to be so miffed?   



Reply By E-mail || Post QUICK reply        [ See Related Messages ]





Follow-ups:
      




Latest Messages


SEE MORE....
image