Posted By: memt2 on 2008-05-27
In Reply to: Marriage Help - Done

I have a sister who has been in her marriage for 25+ years, miserable the whole time, stayed for children, now the 2 kids are in the same kind of relationship because that is all they know, learned behavior as Dr. Phil states, in the long run it hurt them for her to stay more than it helped.

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