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is to leave and go back to your family where you will have the support you need. Your husband appears to have many issues that, frankly, you will not be able to fix and it is doubtful he will want to seek counseling based on the behavior you describe. Further, he may be homosexual/bisexual and this, as you know, is not something that is "fixed". It sounds like he is purposely treating you terribly and this has nothing to do with something you have done or not done enough of - this is another sign of his many psychological issues. Please do not waste another minute of your life. Be thankful that child is his from another relationship and not yours - you can make a clean break, move on with your life in a positive direction, find the kind of relationship you deserve, and never have to deal with your husband again. I am aware that you love him, but also ask yourself if you are focusing on what you WISH it could be like or maybe even USED to be like. Do you really love the man he is now - the man that treats you this way? I repeat, do not waste another minute of your life. It will not be easy at first, but you will learn, grow and be all the better for leaving this man. He is killing you emotionally day by day. |