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is very different for me.
My son played from age 5 till now in college. I can pretty much see myself in both you and the other lady. And nope, at times it is not pretty.
However, I will say this -- I learned.
My daughter is now playing softball. I no longer worry about the calls, who is playing where, ya da ya da. I keep telling her (and myself) ... just have fun, work hard and do your best - that is what matters.
It's hard because I am very competitive by nature, and whewn it ain't fair - it ain't fair. But .. I realized we DID take a lot of the fun and pleasure out of it for him, not to mention the stress on us.
Whether they win or lose in Little League, play great or look like they've never touched a ball before, keeping the love of the game and fun in it is what is most important. And it does embarass them when parents get up in arms, truly does.
However, don't be so hard on yourself -- just work on it like you said. And trust me -- it aint' easy!!
PS - and take LOTS of pictures! I wish I had more from those days.
good luck to you!
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