I will NEVER be able to understand why women put up with stuff like this. Your husband sounds like an ***.
I have - or had - a friend whose husband was like this. Very controlling. They fought all the time because unlike you, she WOULD push the issue constantly. The fights eventually became physical. After so many times of her crying on my shoulder and asking for advice (my advice was pretty obvious), I finally decided I couldn't be her friend anymore. I did care for her, but I can't be the shoulder ever time he hits her and then be waiting for the next time to say the same things again.
It bothers me a lot that women put up with controlling jerks like that, and I just can't stomach being part of it. That is your sister! Who is he to tell you that you can't see her?
Ugh, this kind of stuff makes my stomach turn. |
What do I think? Time for a divorce! - wow
