Posted By: jlynn on 2008-04-04
In Reply to: But you would have if you could have, and above poster did try (sm) - Surprised in Carolina

I think it has to do with a difference in children... I basically think if a parent can help their kid go to college, they should. . If the kid shows no inclination to help out at all, then there is no point in them going to college anyway. . But the above poster's hubby did pay child support until the girls were 21 - at that point, they could have had 3 years of college in if they had used the money for that purpose - gotten scholarships, loans, jobs, etc. to help pay for part of it themselves. .

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