Posted By: stacy72468 on 2008-02-26
In Reply to: My parents getting a divorce after 30-something years... - blondie

My parents divorced after 27 years of marriage.  I was so angry at my dad for leaving mom.  It was hard to see mother hurting like she was and dad not doing anything to fix it.  I agree with the poster below, the best thing is to forgive him.  You love them both and do want to see either one hurt (believe it or not dad is hurting too).  This new lady friend will either get tired of him or he will wake up and seeing that he is being used, then where will he be?  Please try not to be angry with your dad but, and I know that it is hard, to love him.

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