Posted By: blondie on 2008-01-27
In Reply to: You sign yourself as friend, ok if so - Thinker

That is why I haven't went. I am respecting wishes. I did not say I was going to go by unannounced. I am honoring her wishes so therefore I am being a real friend. I considered sending a card though.

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