Posted By: Malki Reed on 2007-12-27
In Reply to: My 10 year old, non-sports-oriented son is so sad! (sm) - Worried mom

My nephew plays street hockey (ice hockey rules but played on rollerblades).  Much cheaper than learning to ice skate or trying to get time at the rink.  Not sure if it is through church, school or the Y, but despite the name, he is not playing in traffic.

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