Posted By: Hmmm on 2007-11-20
In Reply to: I'm so glad you have that type of relationship! That's how it should be. (sm) - OP

come across strongly as really hoping for them not to go- you said showing them off- I guarantee the majority of grandparents want to show their g'kids off, either in person or in pictures they carry around. This is NOT unusual. Why do you find this strange? You have the undertones of not liking this person. Your children are picking up on this.

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