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I sat through Christmas with the kids ripping open packages and casting aside, wanting to get finished to go to their maternal g'parents. My DIL did not want to share any holidays so we at first split- but when my half of the day came, they were late or if I had the mornings, they were ready to leave about as soon as they got there. Your note is exactly what I have lived. I would have loved to grow up with the g'children around- couldn’t because the maternal side too strong to want to come to my home. It started as soon as they were born. Waiting at home to go see the grandson at maternal grandmothers first day home, I was told to wait to hold the grandson because the cousins, g'grandmother and aunts, etc. on the maternal side not finished holding him yet. I cried so hard- it was like that from the start. Parents do not know when they don’t share how much it can hurt the other g'parents. I finally just stop trying. |
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