Posted By: Been on both sides on 2007-10-25
In Reply to: Need advice/please don't judge me - sadgirl

I've read most of the answers to your post, and I agree, you need to let this go.  However, if it helps, take your  last sentence and "use" that.  He has made you a better person.  Use that to begin anew.  Good luck to you.  There is someone out there worthy of you, trust me, there is.

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