Posted By: Oh that must be just awful..... on 2007-10-09
In Reply to: I need some advice from... - you ladies...sm

I'm sorry to sound so sarcastic, but you cannot choose your daughter's life partners.  She may be one that does not choose to get married.  She needs to be her own person and make her own mistakes.  I would focus more on safe sex as opposed to no sex at this point as you do not want to alienate yourself from her life.  She will rebel.  You sound very controlling.  I would loosen your hold on her or you could lose her forever.

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