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I think 10 years of waiting is compromising pretty good. I am willing to meet him halfway and find somewhere that he can be happy as well as the rest of us.
Yes I have seriously sat down and discussed this with him and with a marriage counsellor many times. I have attempted to improve our situation many times, however I am not allowed to spend any money on the house and he does not want me to paint, etc., without his help, but he is never available to help. I have done a few rooms while he has been out of town and he has come home and found out and been very angry. If I was to order repairs on the house through someone else, even if I paid for it myself, he would be furious, as if I had stepped on his toes. |
Well, it does take TWO to compromise - can't do it by myself (sm) - OP
