Posted By: phillychick on 2007-09-25
In Reply to: Yep - Four different counsellors! (nm) - OP

dump him and move on! There seem to be no redeeming qualities about him. You are either head over heels in love, afraid to leave or blind. You CAN do better, you have to want it and not allow yourself to be treated as a non-entity.

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