Posted By: Kristy on 2007-09-25
In Reply to: My husband refuses to move (sm) - Grounds for divorce??

He is being really selfish, and if he ever found a woman who liked that lifestyle, he probably wouldn't like her all that much! I have an ex-husband who turned our yard into a junk yard and spent his free time fixing other people's things while our place went to heck. I know how you feel! Good luck.

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