Posted By: sm on 2006-12-01
In Reply to: I think someone liked the attention - IMO

I totally agree with the OP. I too have been inappropriately treated by men, uncomfortable staring or smiling or flitatious comments and it gets a little tiresome. The problem is that men never grow up. They would do this into their 90s if they could still see!

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