Posted By: I pay no child support on 2007-06-19
In Reply to: If there are then go back to court. This is a dead beat mom, - no different than dead beat dad. nm

Am I a deadbeat mom as well?! This was agreed upon by both dad and I .. Child lives out of state, I get all holidays and summers.... Just because no support is being paid doesnt mean the person is a deadbeat .. every situation is DIFFERENT.... Why does everyone think negative?!

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