I have 3 children ages 9, 7, and 3. I still wonder everyday how am I going to get it all done. I have had to give up on keeping the house as neat as I would like it...usually it is a FAR cry from neat really :) So, you may have to just learn to deal with a bit of a mess for now. There is a difference between dirty and messy, s dont sweat the messy.
I agree with the other poster that working as an employee is probably making it more difficult. I am not a morning person AT ALL! I often will work after they all go to bed til 1-2 a.m. Maybe talk to your employer and see if they have any job positions that are more flexible?
Wish I had something helpful to add, but just really wanted to encourage you that it is a common battle we fight and there is a way through. Good luck! |
you definitely are not alone...sm - minna
