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The things that come up are mostly related to the kids....sick, school activities, babysitter closed, etc. The "time of my life" I am missing is my own also. I never have any down time. If I'm not working I am tending to their needs all the time. I don't know how to get them to get along. My 19 yo was a great kid and still is and I never had any problems out of him. The two girls on the other hand fight like cats and dogs. I never have time to just sit down to read, cross stitch, play my musical instruments or anything anymore. I feel like in the last 7 years I have totally lost the person I once was and it has caused me to resent even thinking of having kids at this age. I see other moms and couples able to go out and have fun because their kids are grown and I'm stuck here at the house typing and changing diapers. I really need some advice that works for my situation. It's not about managing my time because I have no time to manage. |
Things that come up... - StressedMT
